Category: Church Goals

  • Seated Above the Fray: How Ephesians 2:6 Reshapes Our View of Suffering

    Seated Above the Fray: How Ephesians 2:6 Reshapes Our View of Suffering

    There is a single word in Ephesians 2:6 that carries more comfort than a thousand sermons on coping: seated. Paul does not say that God will one day seat us with Christ, as though this were a distant hope suspended on our performance. He says that God has seated us there. The verb is past tense—a completed action in the mind and purpose of God. And this one word changes everything about how the believer faces the trials of this present age.

    Ephesians 2:6

    And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with Him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus.

    To understand why, we must first consider what it means that Christ Himself is seated. The writer of Hebrews tells us that after Jesus had offered for all time one sacrifice for sins, “He sat down at the right hand of God” (Hebrews 10:12). In the ancient world, a priest never sat down. The tabernacle had no chair in the Holy Place because the work of atonement was never finished—sacrifices were offered again and again, day after day, year after year. But when Jesus cried, “It is finished,” He did what no priest had ever done: He sat down. His posture declared that the work was complete, the debt was paid, and nothing remained to be added. Now Paul says that we are seated with Him. Our posture, in the sight of God, is the posture of rest. We are not standing anxiously before the altar, wondering if we have done enough. We are seated beside the One whose sacrifice was sufficient.

    This changes the way we view our daily struggles in at least three ways.

    First, it means that our struggles do not define our position. The believer who lies awake at night wrestling with fear, illness, grief, or temptation is, in the deepest and most real sense, already seated above those very things in Christ. This does not mean the struggles are imaginary or insignificant. Paul knew hunger, shipwreck, beatings, and sorrow. But it means that the final word over our lives is not spoken by the affliction but by the One who has raised us and seated us with Himself. When the waves rise, we are not clinging to the side of the boat, hoping to survive. We are, by faith, already with the One who calms the sea (cf. Matthew 8:26–27). The struggle is real, but it is beneath the feet of Christ—and we are in Him (Ephesians 1:22).

    Second, being seated with Christ means we fight from victory, not for victory. There is a world of difference between a soldier storming a beachhead and a king surveying a conquered land. The believer’s struggle against sin, the flesh, and the devil is not a battle to determine the outcome—that was settled at the cross and confirmed by the empty tomb. Christ has disarmed the rulers and authorities, making a public spectacle of them (Colossians 2:15). Our resistance, therefore, is the resistance of those who stand on already-won ground. We do not wrestle in order to earn God’s favor but because we already possess it. This does not make the fight easy, but it makes it hopeful. The enemy rages, but he rages as a defeated foe. The chain has been broken; the prisoner has been set free. Our calling is to live in the freedom that is already ours (cf. Romans 6:11).

    Third, being seated with Christ lifts our gaze above the immediate horizon of pain. Paul writes in Colossians 3:1–2, “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” This is not a call to escapism or denial. It is a call to perspective. When we are consumed by the present trial—when the diagnosis is grim, when the relationship is fractured, when the temptation feels overwhelming—we are seeing reality from ground level. But there is a truer reality: we are seated with Christ in the heavenly realms. The unseen world is more real and more lasting than the seen (2 Corinthians 4:18). To set our minds on things above is not to pretend that suffering does not hurt; it is to remember that our present afflictions are producing an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs them all (2 Corinthians 4:17). The seating of the believer is God’s way of anchoring the soul so that the storms of this age cannot drag it under.

    Practical Reflection

    There will be mornings when the weight of life presses down so heavily that the thought of being “seated with Christ” feels like a theological abstraction rather than a living reality. On those mornings, the believer does not need to climb up to the heavenly realms by sheer willpower. The Spirit of God, who is the guarantee of our inheritance, is already at work within us, enabling us to believe what we cannot yet feel. The practice of the Christian life is not mustering greater effort but recalling greater truths. When the heart is faint, preach this to yourself: I am not my circumstances. I am not my failures. I am not my fears. I am seated with Christ, and His finished work is my resting place. Let the posture of the Savior—seated, at rest, work complete—become the posture of your soul. And from that place of rest, face the day not with clenched fists but with open hands, trusting that the One who raised you and seated you will sustain you through every valley until the day you see Him face to face.

  • The Unshakeable Inheritance: What We Possess in Christ 

    The Unshakeable Inheritance: What We Possess in Christ 

    When the Apostle Paul pauses to bless the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, he does not begin with a list of things we must do to earn favor, but with a proclamation of what God has already done for us. To believe in Jesus Christ is not merely to assent to a set of truths; it is to enter into a vast, pre-arranged inheritance that the Father prepared before the foundations of the world. In the New Covenant, the believer is no longer a stranger seeking a foothold in God’s family but a son and daughter, fully adopted and sealed by the Spirit. The question is not whether we have enough faith to grasp these blessings, but whether we have eyes to see the treasure that is already ours.

    Ephesians 1:3-14 BSB

    Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms. For He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world to be holy and blameless in His presence. In love He predestined us for adoption as His sons through Jesus Christ, according to the good pleasure of His will, to the praise of His glorious grace, which He has freely given us in the Beloved One.

    In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace that He lavished on us with all wisdom and understanding. And He has made known to us the mystery of His will according to His good pleasure, which He purposed in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to bring all things in heaven and on earth together in Christ.

    In Him we were also chosen as God’s own, having been predestined according to the plan of Him who works out everything by the counsel of His will, in order that we, who were the first to hope in Christ, would be for the praise of His glory.

    And in Him, having heard and believed the word of truth—the gospel of your salvation—you were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the pledge of our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession, to the praise of His glory.

    The Blessing of Spiritual Riches The first and most profound reality we possess is the blessing of every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms. This is not a future hope that waits until death, but a present possession secured by the resurrection of Christ. Because Jesus has ascended and been seated at the right hand of the Father, we are seated with Him. This means that the fullness of God’s grace, mercy, and power is available to us right now. We do not strive for acceptance; we rest in it. The “spiritual blessings” include the forgiveness of sins, the indwelling of the Holy Spirit, and the assurance of eternal life. These are not rewards for our performance but gifts of His grace, flowing from the finished work of the cross.

    Adoption and the Spirit of Sonship Perhaps the most comforting truth for the weary soul is the reality of adoption. In the ancient world, adoption was a legal act that transferred a person from one household to another, granting them all the rights and privileges of a natural-born child. In Christ, we are not merely servants who obey out of fear, but sons and daughters who obey out of love and identity. The Spirit of God cries out within us, “Abba, Father,” confirming that we belong to the family of God. This relationship is secure, not because of our fluctuating emotions or our occasional failures, but because it is rooted in the eternal decree of the Father. We have the privilege of approaching the throne of grace with boldness, knowing that we are heard and loved.

    Redemption and Forgiveness Believing in Jesus Christ grants us the glorious freedom of redemption. The word implies a purchase price paid to set a slave free. Through the blood of Christ, we have been bought back from the slavery of sin and the condemnation of the law. This redemption is complete; there is no debt left to pay, no penalty to suffer. The record of our sins has been nailed to the cross, and the accuser has been silenced. We possess a clean conscience, a heart washed white as snow, and a standing before God that is as perfect as Christ’s own righteousness. This freedom is not a license to sin, but the power to live a life of holiness, liberated from the crushing weight of guilt.

    The Seal and Guarantee of the Spirit Finally, we possess the seal of the Holy Spirit, who serves as the guarantee of our inheritance. In the ancient world, a seal indicated ownership and authenticity, while a guarantee (or down payment) assured the buyer that the full payment would follow. The Holy Spirit living within us is the proof that we belong to God. He is the active presence of God in our lives, guiding, comforting, and empowering us. He is the down payment of the future glory that awaits us, a foretaste of the resurrection life. This seal is unbreakable; it marks us as God’s own possession until the day of final redemption. No force in heaven or earth can snatch us from the Father’s hand or nullify this divine seal.

    Practical Reflection For the believer walking through the valleys of life, these truths are not abstract doctrines but anchors for the soul. When anxiety whispers that you are alone, remember that you have the Spirit of adoption crying out within you. When guilt tries to condemn you, recall that you have been fully redeemed and forgiven. When the world seems chaotic, rest in the fact that you are seated with Christ in the heavenly realms, possessing every spiritual blessing. The Christian life is not about striving to gain what we lack, but about believing in what we have. It is a journey of waking up to the reality that in Christ, we are rich, we are free, we are loved, and we are secure. May we live each day in the light of this magnificent inheritance, allowing the certainty of our position in Christ to transform our perspective, our prayers, and our peace.

  • Faith in the Son of God

    Faith in the Son of God

    The heart of the Christian life is believing that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God. From this faith flows love for God, love for His children, and the power to overcome the world.

    Scripture
    “Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has become a child of God. And everyone who loves the Father loves his children, too. We know we love God’s children if we love God and obey his commandments. Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome. For every child of God defeats this evil world, and we achieve this victory through our faith. And who can win this battle against the world? Only those who believe that Jesus is the Son of God.” — 1 John 5:1–5 (NLT)

    Reflection
    Faith in Jesus is not just mental agreement—it is the doorway into God’s family. Believing in Him makes us His children, and love for the Father naturally extends to His other children. John links love and obedience closely: to love God is to obey His commands. Yet far from being heavy, God’s commands are life-giving, because they flow from His love and are empowered by His Spirit.

    John also reminds us that faith is the key to victory. The world with its temptations, doubts, and opposition may seem overwhelming, but those who trust in Christ overcome it. This victory is not won by our strength but through believing in the Son of God. As Jesus said, “Take heart, because I have overcome the world” (John 16:33, NLT).

    Application
    Hold fast to your confession of faith: Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God. Let this faith shape your love for others and your obedience to God’s Word. When the world feels heavy, remember that victory is already yours through Christ. Walk in that confidence today.

    References
    “For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith.” — 1 John 5:4 (NIV)

    Prayer
    Lord Jesus, thank You that by believing in You I have been made a child of God. Strengthen my love for the Father and for my brothers and sisters in Christ. Help me to walk in obedience, not as a burden but as a joy. Remind me that in You I already have victory over the world. Amen.

  • Perfect Love Casts Out Fear

    Perfect Love Casts Out Fear

    Fear often grips our hearts when we forget who God is and what He has done for us. But John reminds us that God’s love, made perfect in Christ, drives out fear and gives us confidence in His presence.

    Scripture
    “And as we live in God, our love grows more perfect. So we will not be afraid on the day of judgment, but we can face him with confidence because we live like Jesus here in this world. Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. We love each other because he loved us first.” — 1 John 4:17–19 (NLT)

    Reflection
    The world’s kind of love is fragile, often mixed with fear of loss or rejection. But God’s love is different—it is steady, perfect, and rooted in Christ’s finished work. This love gives believers confidence, not dread, when they think of standing before God.

    Fear of punishment belongs to those who are outside of Christ. But for God’s children, judgment has already been dealt with at the cross. Jesus bore the penalty, so we can live in freedom, not fear. As we abide in God, our love matures and reflects His nature more and more.

    This freedom from fear doesn’t make us careless—it fuels deeper love. When we know how completely God loves us, we are freed to love others without hesitation. His perfect love flows through us, replacing fear with boldness and self-giving compassion.

    Application
    Ask yourself: Am I living out of fear or out of love? Bring your fears before God and let His perfect love remind you of your secure standing in Christ. Then, take a step of love toward someone today—not out of obligation, but as an overflow of the love you’ve received.

    References
    “So now there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.” — Romans 8:1 (NLT)

    Prayer
    Father, thank You that Your perfect love drives out my fear. Help me to rest in the confidence that Christ has already borne my punishment. Teach me to live each day not in fear, but in love—loving others freely because You have loved me first. Amen.

  • Session 23: Living Out the Goodness of God

    Session 23: Living Out the Goodness of God

    We’ve finally arrived at our last session of our Church Goals series. Last week, we discussed the importance of kindness and how it reflects Christ’s love in our interactions with others. Today, we will focus on the theme of goodness—understanding what it means to live out the goodness of God in our daily lives and how we can become vessels of His goodness to those around us.

    Session Objective: The objective of this session is to explore the biblical concept of goodness, understand its role in the life of a believer, and learn practical ways to embody God’s goodness in our actions and decisions.

    Scripture Reading: Galatians 6:9-10 (BSB) “Let us not grow weary in well-doing, for in due time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to the family of faith.”

    Key Themes:

    1. Understanding the Goodness of God:
      • God as the Source of All Goodness: Reflect on Psalm 34:8, “Taste and see that the LORD is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.” Discuss how all goodness originates from God and how His goodness is evident in His creation, provision, and grace.
      • Goodness as a Fruit of the Spirit: Explore Galatians 5:22-23, where goodness is listed as a fruit of the Spirit. Discuss how goodness, like kindness, is a manifestation of the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives, leading us to act in ways that are morally right and beneficial to others.
      • The Moral Aspect of Goodness: Consider Micah 6:8, which says, “He has shown you, O man, what is good; and what does the LORD require of you but to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?” Discuss the moral dimension of goodness, emphasizing justice, mercy, and humility.
    2. Living Out Goodness in Our Daily Lives:
      • Goodness in Our Actions: Reflect on how our actions can reflect God’s goodness, using James 2:14-17, which emphasizes that faith without works is dead. Discuss how true goodness is expressed through actions that benefit others, such as helping those in need or standing up for what is right.
      • Goodness in Our Decisions: Explore the importance of making decisions that reflect God’s goodness. Consider Philippians 4:8, which encourages us to focus on whatever is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable. Discuss how these qualities can guide our decision-making.
      • Goodness in Our Relationships: Reflect on Romans 12:21, which says, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Discuss how we can overcome negative influences by responding with goodness, especially in our relationships.
    3. Practical Steps to Embody God’s Goodness:
      • Choosing Goodness Daily: Reflect on the importance of daily choices in living out goodness. Consider Deuteronomy 30:19-20, where God sets before us life and death, blessings and curses, and calls us to choose life. Discuss how choosing goodness daily aligns with choosing life and blessing.
      • Serving Others with Goodness: Explore how serving others is a practical way to embody God’s goodness. Reflect on Matthew 25:35-40, where Jesus describes the righteous as those who fed the hungry, gave drink to the thirsty, and welcomed strangers. Discuss how service is a tangible expression of goodness.
      • Encouraging Others in Goodness: Consider Hebrews 10:24, which says, “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” Discuss the importance of encouraging others in their pursuit of goodness and how we can support one another in doing good.
    4. Overcoming Challenges in Pursuing Goodness:
      • Dealing with Weariness in Doing Good: Reflect on Galatians 6:9, which acknowledges the weariness that can come from persistent efforts to do good. Discuss strategies for overcoming fatigue and maintaining the motivation to do good, such as prayer, community support, and focusing on the eternal rewards.
      • Resisting Temptations to Compromise: Explore the challenges of staying committed to goodness in a world where it’s often easier to compromise. Reflect on 1 Peter 2:12, which encourages believers to live good lives among non-believers, so that they may see our good deeds and glorify God.
      • Trusting God’s Timing: Consider Ecclesiastes 3:11, which says, “He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Discuss how trusting in God’s timing helps us remain steadfast in our pursuit of goodness, even when we don’t see immediate results.
    5. The Impact of Living Out Goodness:
      • Building a Testimony of Goodness: Reflect on how consistent goodness builds a testimony that glorifies God, using Matthew 5:16, which says, “Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” Discuss how our lives can be a testimony to God’s goodness.
      • Transforming Lives Through Goodness: Explore how acts of goodness can transform lives, both our own and others’. Consider how goodness can be a catalyst for change in families, communities, and even society at large.
      • The Eternal Rewards of Goodness: Reflect on the eternal perspective of doing good, using Matthew 25:21, where Jesus says, “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!” Discuss the joy and reward that come from living a life of goodness.

    Discussion Questions:

    1. Understanding Goodness:
      • How do you see the goodness of God reflected in your life?
      • What does it mean to you that goodness is a fruit of the Spirit?
    2. Living Out Goodness:
      • In what ways can you reflect God’s goodness in your daily actions and decisions?
      • How can you incorporate goodness into your relationships with others?
    3. Overcoming Challenges:
      • What challenges do you face in maintaining a commitment to goodness, and how can you overcome them?
      • How does trusting in God’s timing help you stay motivated in doing good?
    4. The Impact of Goodness:
      • How has living out goodness impacted your relationships and your testimony?
      • What are the long-term benefits of consistently doing good, even when it’s difficult?

    Application:

    1. Reflect on God’s Goodness:
      • Take time this week to reflect on the ways God has shown His goodness to you. Let this reflection inspire you to show goodness to others.
    2. Make Goodness a Habit:
      • Commit to making goodness a habit by choosing to do good in your daily interactions and decisions. Start with small acts of kindness and build from there.
    3. Serve Others with Goodness:
      • Look for opportunities to serve others in a way that reflects God’s goodness. Whether through volunteering, helping a neighbor, or supporting a cause, let your actions be a testimony to God’s goodness.
    4. Encourage Goodness in Others:
      • Be intentional about encouraging others to live out goodness. Share words of encouragement, support those who are doing good, and create an environment that fosters goodness.

    Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your goodness and for the opportunity to reflect that goodness in our lives. Help us to live out Your goodness in our actions, decisions, and relationships. Strengthen us to overcome the challenges we face in doing good, and remind us of the eternal rewards that come from faithfully living out Your will. May our lives be a testimony of Your goodness, bringing glory to Your name and drawing others closer to You. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

    Next Session: In our next session, we will explore the theme of faithfulness, focusing on how we can remain steadfast in our commitment to God and His purposes.


    This last session of our series focused on embodying God’s goodness, providing biblical insights and practical steps to help participants live out the goodness of God in their daily lives.

  • Session 22: Cultivating Kindness in Our Daily Lives

    Session 22: Cultivating Kindness in Our Daily Lives

    Previously discussed the importance of patience in our relationship with God. Today, we will focus on the theme of kindness—how we can cultivate a heart of compassion and reflect Christ’s kindness in our daily interactions with others. Kindness is a powerful expression of God’s love and a vital aspect of Christian character.

    Session Objective: The objective of this session is to understand the significance of kindness in the Christian life, recognize the opportunities we have to show kindness, and learn how to actively cultivate a kind and compassionate heart.

    Scripture Reading: Ephesians 4:32 (BSB) “Be kind and tender-hearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.”

    Key Themes:

    1. The Importance of Kindness:
      • Kindness as a Reflection of God’s Love: Reflect on Titus 3:4-5, which speaks of the kindness and love of God our Savior. Discuss how our kindness to others reflects the love and kindness we have received from God.
      • Kindness as a Fruit of the Spirit: Explore Galatians 5:22-23, where kindness is listed as a fruit of the Spirit. Discuss how kindness is a natural outflow of the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives.
      • Kindness in Action: Consider 1 Corinthians 13:4, which says, “Love is patient, love is kind.” Discuss how kindness is an essential expression of love in our relationships.
    2. Opportunities to Show Kindness:
      • Everyday Acts of Kindness: Reflect on how small, everyday acts of kindness can make a big difference. Discuss practical examples, such as offering a smile, holding a door open, or helping someone in need.
      • Kindness in Challenging Situations: Explore the challenge of showing kindness in difficult situations or to difficult people. Reflect on Romans 12:20, which encourages us to “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.”
      • Kindness in Words: Consider the power of kind words, using Proverbs 16:24, which says, “Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Discuss how our words can either build up or tear down others.
    3. Cultivating a Heart of Kindness:
      • Empathy and Compassion: Reflect on Colossians 3:12, which calls us to “clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” Discuss the role of empathy and compassion in cultivating kindness.
      • Forgiveness and Kindness: Explore the connection between forgiveness and kindness, using Ephesians 4:32. Discuss how forgiving others is an essential aspect of showing kindness.
      • Intentional Acts of Kindness: Consider the importance of being intentional about showing kindness. Reflect on Matthew 7:12, the Golden Rule, which says, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.”
    4. Practical Steps to Show Kindness:
      • Practice Kindness Daily: Discuss practical ways to incorporate acts of kindness into your daily routine, such as volunteering, helping a neighbor, or encouraging someone.
      • Be Kind to Yourself: Explore the importance of being kind to yourself, using Mark 12:31, which says, “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Discuss how self-compassion enables us to show kindness to others.
      • Teach Kindness to Others: Consider how you can model and teach kindness to others, especially children and those you mentor. Reflect on 1 Timothy 4:12, which encourages us to set an example in our conduct.
    5. The Impact of Kindness:
      • Transforming Relationships: Reflect on how kindness can transform relationships, using Proverbs 15:1, which says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Discuss how kindness can diffuse conflict and build stronger connections.
      • Kindness as a Witness: Explore how kindness can be a powerful witness to others about the love of Christ. Reflect on Matthew 5:16, which encourages us to “let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.”
      • The Joy of Giving: Consider how showing kindness brings joy to both the giver and the receiver, using Acts 20:35, which says, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

    Discussion Questions:

    1. Understanding Kindness:
      • How has God’s kindness impacted your life, and how does it inspire you to show kindness to others?
      • What does it mean to you to be kind in challenging situations?
    2. Opportunities to Show Kindness:
      • What are some practical ways you can show kindness in your daily life?
      • How can you be more intentional about looking for opportunities to show kindness to others?
    3. Cultivating a Heart of Kindness:
      • How can you cultivate a heart of kindness that is rooted in empathy and compassion?
      • What role does forgiveness play in your ability to show kindness?
    4. The Impact of Kindness:
      • How has kindness transformed your relationships or the relationships of others?
      • In what ways can kindness serve as a witness to others about the love of Christ?

    Application:

    1. Reflect on Kindness:
      • Take time this week to reflect on how you have experienced God’s kindness in your life. Ask God to help you be a channel of His kindness to others.
    2. Practice Intentional Kindness:
      • Choose specific acts of kindness to practice this week, whether it’s helping someone in need, offering encouragement, or simply being a listening ear.
    3. Pray for a Kind Heart:
      • Make it a daily habit to pray for a kind and compassionate heart. Ask God to help you see others through His eyes and to respond with love and kindness.
    4. Teach and Model Kindness:
      • Look for opportunities to model and teach kindness to others, especially those who look up to you. Consider how you can encourage a culture of kindness in your family, workplace, or community.

    Closing Prayer: Heavenly Father, we thank You for the kindness and love You have shown us through Jesus Christ. Help us to cultivate hearts that are kind and compassionate, reflecting Your love to everyone we meet. Give us the grace to show kindness even in challenging situations and to be intentional about looking for opportunities to bless others with our words and actions. May our kindness be a witness to Your goodness and draw others closer to You. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.

    Next Session: In our next session, we will explore the theme of goodness, focusing on how we can live out the goodness of God in our daily lives.


    This session focuses on cultivating kindness, offering insights and practical steps to help participants reflect Christ’s love through acts of kindness in their daily interactions.